Fairy tales are a deeply ingrained part of our world’s culture. From Disney adaptations to childhood bedtime stories, very few people haven’t been exposed to the witches, princesses, children, and fairy folk that make up these ageless classics. Good defeats evil, and all live happily ever after, but…are these stories really as wholesome as they appear? Unfortunately, many of the most well-known fairy tales send a wrong message when placed under the microscope with strong undertones of misogyny, ageism, cruelty, and subservience. “Happily ever after” is exposed to a dose of reality as beloved stories become the subject of deeper scrutiny.
In Cinderella Didn’t Live Happily Ever After, author Anne Beall uses her doctorate in psychology to put traditional fairy tales under critical and academic analysis. Throughout the book, she addresses all the absurdities and questions that eventually occur to all reasonable adults about the stories we grew up with. Then, she proceeds to examine each of them, presenting a plethora of research about the formulaic ways they are constructed. Whether intentional or not, much of the shared information deals with the disparity between the sexes throughout fairy tales. In addition, the author provides statistics in various areas such as who holds the most power most frequently, which demographic of characters endure the most suffering, and a basic breakdown of what kind of characters are good vs. evil- just to name a few.
Beyond the deeply analytical nature of the book, it also serves as a fascinating deep dive into some of the lesser-known fairy tales collected by the Grimm brothers. (Their collection of stories specifically was mined for the detailed results as shown here.) Beall repeatedly references the most commonly adapted fairy tales. Such tales are deeply ingrained in cultures worldwide and use frequent excerpts from stories that are not likely to be recognized. It provides an eye-opening look at the wide variety of stories that made their way across Europe at one point in time and also creates a starting point for anyone who wants to know more about a more extensive selection of “classics.”
Cinderella Didn’t Live Happily Ever After: The Hidden Messages in Fairy Tales is an excellent study on the history and the psychological impact of fairy tales. The research is top-notch and backed up with numerous graphs and charts. It’s clear that a great deal of time went into the work here, and the result is a body of work that simply can’t be contested. Readers that want to take a deep dive into the message of fairy tales past and present and look at an in-depth analysis of them will find this book fascinating.
https://literarytitan.com/2022/06/07/cinderella-didnt-live-happily-ever-after/
Fairy tales are a reflection of the social values of their time and often serve as vehicles for teaching moral lessons. However, a closer examination of these stories reveals that the actual behaviors and punishments do not always align with our expectations. Only Prince Charming Gets to Break the Rules, a meticulously researched analysis by Dr. Anne E. Beall sheds light on the disparities between male and female characters in both fairy tales and real life.
Beall’s study delves into the rule-breaking behavior of characters in fairy tales, comparing and contrasting the consequences and emotions conveyed. Through a comprehensive global perspective that includes stories from Africa, Asia, Europe, North America, and South America, the author demonstrates how fairy tales communicate societal values that have persisted over time.
The use of statistics and real-life examples helps Beall identify gender differences in rule-breaking patterns, revealing that women are more likely to engage in psychological and physical abuse. Despite the ample data presented, the author maintains an unbiased approach throughout. Although the writing style may at times feel overly factual due to the abundance of statistics, the book remains engaging and informative. In fact, the material presented is well-suited for classroom discussions and anyone interested in understanding societal norms and behaviors.
Overall, Only Prince Charming Gets to Break the Rules: Gender and Rule Violation in Fairy Tales and Life is a refreshing and illuminating read that challenges our preconceived notions of gender roles and expectations. This research into fairytales and mythology is an excellent addition to those studying the impact on literature and gender roles worldwide and through time.
https://literarytitan.com/2023/04/03/only-prince-charming-gets-to-break-the-rules/
People Magazine wrote a great article about the Book Cinderella Didn't Live Happily Ever After
The Daily Northwestern profiled Anne Beall and her career, her books and the launch of Chicago Story Press
Toronto Sun wrote an article about the Book Cinderella Didn't Live Happily Ever After
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